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18 Signs Your Spirit Guide is Trying to Contact You (Communicating with Spirit Guides)

Did you know that you are constantly joined by a team of Spirit Guides who assist you on your physical journey in the Earthly realm?

That’s right! Before you incarnated into your body (or your “avatar” as some people like to call it) to play your character in this game of life, you signed a “soul contract” that outlined your life missions and lessons.

When a spirit guide is capable of assisting you with your soul’s growth, they sign up to stand by your side for the ride. Learning how to spot the signs your spirit guide is trying to contact you could potentially transform your spiritual growth journey and change your life… for the better!

Most people, according to psychics who have conducted readings on their clients, will be divinely guided and protected by at least four spirit guides. However, some people may have as many as 10, 20, or even 30 spirit guides in their “Guardian Council” (or whatever you want to call it).

Of that amount, a handful may be “Angels” or “Guardian Angels”, whereas the other spots might have been snapped up by an “Ascended Master” like Buddha, Jesus, or Saint Germain. Ascended Masters are souls who reside in the 6th dimension after completing their soul missions and learning their lessons during a single lifetime.

Various other “higher dimensional beings” may be assisting you on your path to ensure you fulfill your soul’s purpose. Examples include Starseed guides and ancient ancestors from past lives, such as a Native American Indian. There might even be a deceased close family member, friend or loved one who has signed on as your spirit guide – what a nice thought!

So, let’s learn more about the signs from spirit guides and discover if your spirit guide is trying to contact you. 

Understanding the Purpose of Spirit Guides: What are Spirit Guides? 

Understanding what spirit guides are is the first step to receiving their help. Next, you can confirm the signs that your spirit guide is trying to contact you. Based on Western spiritualism, a spirit guide is a high-vibrational divine being of light whose job is to guide us Earthly dwellers into alignment with Source.

In simple terms, a spirit guide is an entity that probably once incarnated as human and who now carries out their duties as a discarnate spirit, leading the living incarnated people (just like you and me) to the path of universal enlightenment. 

Many spirit guides accomplish their goals and no longer need to reincarnate, whereas others may serve as a spirit guide for a short duration before reincarnating into a new body in your soul family, e.g., a spirit guide could reincarnate as your close friend or child. Either way, the different types of spirit guides never truly leave us.

(You can learn more about the different types of spirit guides by reading our blog post on that specific topic here.

Some energy workers, including Reiki experts, may be able to tell you more about your specific spirit guides. Reiki professionals might even be able to help you unblock stagnant chakra-inflicting energies, thus potentially improving your ability to communicate with spirit guides and receive messages from your higher self.

(We recommend reading Opening to Channel: How to Connect with Your Guide by Sanaya Roman to learn more about connecting with spirit guides.) 

While some spirit guides might volunteer to assist you at later stages in your life, such as a deceased loved one who wants to help you complete your life mission, other types of spirit guides will be standing by your side since birth. Give your spiritual guides credit, because many of them helped you overcome obstacles at various stages in your life. 

18 Signs Your Spirit Guide is Trying to Contact You

When you’re feeling like you’re at a crossroads in your life and don’t know which way to turn, you can call on your spirit guides for advice. There may also come a time when your spiritual guides need to pass on an important message that might help you to make decisions or become aware of certain things that require your attention. 

Unsure if your ‘invisible helpers’ are trying to contact you? Let this be a sign that they probably are!

Here are some of the main signs your spirit guide is trying to contact you:

  1. Witnessing a Blue Flash Of Light – Seeing a blue flash of light is an indication that your spirit guide is near. This is particularly common after prayer or meditation, at which point we raise our spiritual vibration to invite communication from our guides. So, if you’ve seen a blue flash of light in your bedroom or from the corner of your eye (considering it is not medically related), there’s a high probability that your spirit guides are trying to get your attention. How magical! 🔵✨
  2. Observing Things in Threes – Number sequences are almost always an indication that you are divinely aligned and in sync with the universe. Since spirit guides usually cannot interfere (just like Angels) unless we invite them in, nor can we hear their words as clearly as a human’s, they often communicate in the form of numbers. Sets of threes symbolize the Holy Trinity, such as seeing “3:33” on the clock or noticing three butterflies. Numerology translates to messages from the spirit realm, so be on the lookout for “111”, “777”, “888” (etc), too. Quadruple repeating numbers also hold spiritual significance. 
  3. Sensing A Nearby Presence – Sometimes we just know that we are not alone. Not in a creepy way, but in a loving, protected kind of way. While you might not see your spirit guides (unless you are blessed with extraordinary gifts), you might feel them around you more intensely sometimes. For example, if you’re in danger, you may feel a miraculous sense of guidance or comfort from your spirit guides as they work behind the scenes to keep you free from harm. It’s also common to communicate with spirit guides by sensing their presence when participating in tasks or missions, since they are here to help fuel our creative abilities and instill strength when we need it the most! (Try asking your spirit guides for a sign the next time you participate in a project that you lack motivation or inspiration for. They never fail – you just have to be receptive.) 
  4. Vivid Dreams or Meditation Visions – The spiritual awakening stages usually involve third eye activation, which may result in you perceiving more things with your mind’s eye than normal. Spirit guide communication can happen in various ways, with vivid dreams being one indication that your guides are trying to tap into your subconscious. During conscious meditation, spirit guides also see a prime opportunity to connect with you. So, if you remember your dreams or receive significant images when your eyes are closed, try to decode the meaning, because they could be messages from spirit guides. Keep a dream or meditation journal handy, like this celestial journal, and write down your visualizations. For example, note the colors, faces, places, and the feelings you get when you see them. 
  5. Feeling the Urge to Pass on Your Wisdom – You may have noticed that more people around the world are sharing spiritual-type messages via social media. Additionally, the craze of spiritual journaling is more popular than ever. This isn’t a phase and it is here to stay; as we ascend to higher vibrations, an increasing number of Earth’s citizens are tuning into the energies of their spirit guides. Consequently, people are feeling the need to convey messages from spirit guides that might help enlighten others, whether it’s in the form of writing, talking on a live video, or singing. Some people might not even realize that it’s their spirit guides who are channeling messages through them! 
  6. Hearing Someone Call Your NameDo you recall a situation where you thought somebody was calling your name, but when you look, nobody’s there? Well, in fact, your spirit guide might have been calling your name! Although nobody else might have heard your spirit guide calling your name, it’s because the message is transmitted directly to you through your psychic abilities. This is one of the main signs that your spirit guide is trying to contact you. Focus on your thoughts prior to hearing the voice, because it could signify the reason(s) why you are receiving messages from spirit guides.
  7. Being Guided to Specific Words, Phrases, or Affirmations – Words have power, both written and spoken. When your spirit guide is trying to contact you, he or she may influence you to open your phone at a specific time to witness a spiritual quote on your Instagram feed/social media platforms, or perhaps guide you to an important book or magazine that features powerful quotes and phrases. A prime example of one of the best spiritual quotes that many people describe as “life-changing” comes from Eckhart Tolle in his book – The Power of Now. It reads as follows: “Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have. Make the Now the primary focus of your life.” Spiritual quotes or phrases like this might unlock something deep within that sparks immense healing or activate profound knowledge that you didn’t know you had! Consider it a sign from the universe that you should be using these written words as affirmations that you can write daily in an affirmation journal like this one, or speak out loud in front of the mirror.
  8. You Smell Unexplained Odors/Scents – Another sign from spirit guides is unexpected smells. The scent of a perfume that your aunt once wore, the aroma of lavender from your grandmother’s garden, the odor of fish (which may indicate that a ghost is present!), or the stench of cigarette smoke wafting past you when nobody is smoking around you may indicate that your guides are encouraging you to make a decision or alerting you of potential danger. Fortunately, most of the time, pleasant spiritual smells will manifest. Prophetic texts, such as the Bible, discuss spiritual smells. Most of the time, spiritual smells will emerge during meditation, rituals, or prayer. You can learn more about the meaning of spiritual smells or “phantom smells” by reading this article.
  9. A Drastic Temperature Change – The spiritual meaning of sudden temperature changes is an indication of a non-physical entity or spirit guide in your presence. Do not be alarmed, but simply acknowledge it and try to interpret the message. It is common for deceased loved ones who become your spirit guide to grasp your attention in this way. The temperature change could be cold or warm, with warm feelings around the feet being an indication that Angel spirit guides are around you. An easy way to understand the meaning of spiritual temperature changes is like this: Just as a tornado may bring an influx of cold and powerful winds, so might the energetic vortex that occurs when the Divine or Spirit enters your space. It is simply an energy change and an indicator that you are not alone! We recommend meditating on it and being open to receive any messages that filter into your mind from spirit guide communication.
  10. Tingling Sensation on the Top of the Head – Many of the signs from spirit guides relate to the signs of spiritual awakening, or the symptoms of your chakras activating. The more balanced our chakras and the more you learn how to open your third eye, the easier it will be to communicate with spirit guides. Everything is energy and if your energy is deflecting spiritual intervention, you might not be able to interpret the signs! The spiritual meaning of tingling on top of the head, or what some people might describe as “buzzing”, “itching”, or “prickly sensation”, is a sign that your spirit guide is trying to communicate with you by funneling energy through your crown chakra.
  11. Vibrating or Pressure Between the Eyebrows – Another sign that spirit guides are trying to contact you that also relates to the symptoms of third eye opening (pineal gland activation) is the feeling of pressure between your eyebrows. Lots of people who experience a spiritual awakening will feel a vibrating sensation in the middle of their forehead during meditation or right before sleep. Do not ignore it, because it means that spirit guide communication is close! Most likely, your spirit guide wants you to practice decalcifying the pineal gland to receive more accurate messages. You can find out how to open third eye quickly by reading our previous blog post here.
  12. Spontaneous Thoughts And Emotions – Imagine you’re walking down the street and you suddenly get a lightbulb moment that spurs on a whole new chain of events, such as the birth of a new career or business, the desire to learn a new language, or feelings of nostalgia about someone, something, or some place. This could be your spirit guide tapping you on the shoulder and nudging you to embrace those thoughts and emotions by acting upon them. Let’s say that your spiritual guides want you to reconnect with a person that you haven’t seen in a long time; perhaps because you and he/she have an important mission on this Earth as lightworkers! Although you might feel overwhelmed, funnel your energy into those spontaneous thoughts and emotions to understand why they are coming to you. Asking your guides to keep you divinely guided and protected will ensure that you are making the right choices, and are not being influenced by the wrong energies. 
  13. Encountering “Coincidental” Situations – Many of us have experienced those “coincidental” (or what we prefer to call ‘synchronistic’) moments when we think of someone and suddenly they text us, call us, or miraculously cross paths with us! This is how life is supposed to be. We are Divine beings of light that are moving in flux with the energies of the universe. So long as we nurture our inner spirituality and maintain a positive mental attitude, we can regularly encounter “coincidences” that lead us in the right direction. It’s basically a way of your spirit guides proving that they are nearby; your spirit guides. are pulling some strings behind the scenes to remind you that magic is real and you are on the right path. Situations like this prove that you are resonating on a specific frequency that is transforming your thoughts into things, so think wisely! 
  14. Encountering the Same Person Repeatedly – Whether you know the person or not, it is usually a sign from the universe if you keep encountering the same individual under different circumstances, in various places, and at frequent intervals within a short period of time. This is a message from your spirit guides that you are probably meant to get to know this person or, if you already know them, reconcile or strengthen your relationship with them. Your spirit guides communicating with you are trying to tell you that this person may have a significant purpose in your life and potentially guide you in the direction of something positively life-changing, like meeting your soulmate. 
  15. Seeing or Hearing the Same Name Frequently – Spirit guide communication can become so much more profound when you learn who they are. Be aware of the names you hear, see, and read. Are you noticing the same name(s) over and over again? If you answered “yes!”, then this is one of the signs that your spirit guide is trying to contact you. The name could be related to an important person you are destined to meet. For example, on my 26th birthday, a box with a ring inside arrived in Brazil with the name “John Paul” on it, and I just knew that it was significant. A few months later, I met the love of my life and had a baby with him. His name was John Paul! That gift was certainly from my Angel spirit guides, and I am so grateful. Then again, if you’re seeing repeating names or hearing names, the spiritual meaning of this is that your spirit guide is trying to tell you his or her name. 
  16. Flickering Lights and Faulty Technology – This scenario is usually depicted in horror movies when a ghost or demon is present. While it is possible for dark entities to make themselves known by fiddling with the electricity in your house, it is also a sign of spirit guide communication. After all, everything is energy, so it makes sense that your spirit guides (who are vibrating at a different frequency to us) might mess up the electricity. So, if your laptop keeps turning off, if your phone keeps freezing, or if your radio turns on unexpectedly, take it as one of the signs that your spirit guide is trying to contact you. Try not to feel fearful, because you might block your guide’s message. Just say, “I welcome this spirit in peace. If the spirit in my presence is not here in my benefit with unconditional love and Divine white light, I encourage him or her to follow the light and evade this space immediately.”
  17. Noticing Your Pets Acting Strangely – Dogs, cats, and many other animals are multi-sensory creatures that can pick up on energy shifts (and sometimes even see) when a spiritual presence enters a room or space. This makes our loyal furry buddies very useful during a spiritual awakening, because if their behavior is a little unusual, we are reminded that our spirit guides are near. Don’t be alarmed if your pet acts scared when they see something that you cannot see, because it doesn’t necessarily mean that an evil (malevolent) spirit or ghost is nearby. You are also a multi-sensory being, so if you tune-in to the energies around you and feel like something is off, consider stocking up on protective crystals, such as selenite (like this one) and black tourmaline (like this one). Never fear an unexpected presence, because if it is a ghost, he or she is simply lost trying to find their way to the light. Say a nice prayer and help guide that presence to the light – just like a spirit guide does for us. 
  18. Ringing in the Left or Right Ear – Last but not least on the list of signs that your spirit guide is trying to contact you is a “spiritual ringing in the ears”. Some people are gifted with clairaudience – the power to recognize energy shifts through hearing. If you notice that a spiritual high-pitched ringing in the left early suddenly occurs out of nowhere, it might indicate that someone on Planet Earth who maintains an energy tie with you is potentially talking about you. Alternatively, if you hear a spiritual high-pitched ringing in the right ear, it’s a sign that your spirit guides or Guardian Angels are trying to communicate with you. Ask yourself, “What was I thinking when the ringing occurred?” and “Is the ringing high-pitched or low-pitched?”. A low-pitched sound could signal the presence of a low-vibrational spirit – not a spirit guide!

How Can I Communicate with My Spirit Guide? 

To maintain an intimate connection with your spirit guides, you simply need to acknowledge that they are around you… always.  These benevolent forces infuse every molecule of our being with strength, faith, and guidance to help us navigate the maze of life. 

Clairvoyant, spiritual medium, and American author James Van Praagh reminds us that we are all divine spiritual beings experiencing life in human form. He discusses this in many of his books, such as:

If you’re wondering how to communicate with spirit guides, it’s crucial to understand that anyone can do it. You don’t have to be an experienced medium, psychic, or Reiki healer, nor do you need to meditate every single day (although meditation does help). By embracing life with an open heart and tuning into the energies around you – such as by walking in nature, listening to high frequency healing music, and talking to the sky! – you will notice an energy shift around you. 

Feeling stressed or doubting your spirit guides won’t annoy them – you can never annoy them, because they love you unconditionally. However, feeling negative will undoubtedly block your ability to receive insights, thus starving your spiritual connections. To channel messages from your spirit guides, sit back, relax, feel, and most importantly trust in the process. Even if messages don’t come straight away, have faith that they are on the way. 

Consider engaging in a guided meditation like this one to enhance your intuition and get to know your spirit guides. Giving your spirit guides specific names will also amplify the rate at which you receive messages. Pay attention to signs in the form of numbers, synchronicities (or “coincidences”, although nothing in life is a coincidence!), spirit animals, insects, people you meet, etc. As you become more conscious and present, the signs will inevitably start flowing. Note them down in a spirit guide journal like this one to decide the messages and observe Divine patterns. 

Learning More About the Signs Your Spirit Guide is Trying to Contact You 

After numerous reincarnations, some souls evolve to the point that they don’t need to return to Earth in physical form. They can, however, be present on our planet in spiritual form and pass on their wisdom. There is a good chance that your spirit guides previously lived similar lives to yours, meaning that they are an expert at what they do. 

For example, someone in an abusive relationship may be divinely connected to a spirit guide that formerly endured violent hardships from a romantic partner, before escaping from that way of life. Ergo, thanks to their experience and insights, the assigned spirit guide may be able to help that person seek a better life just as they were assisted by their very own spirit guide(s) when they were roaming Earth in human form! 

The sooner you learn how to contact spirit guides, the faster you can receive divine guidance that might help you to make smarter, wiser lifestyle choices. Tapping into your true spiritual potential is the first step to learning how to contact spirit guides. Fast-track your spiritual growth journey by opening your third eye with healthy foods or third eye opening supplements, as well as reading books like:

It’s also worth discovering (if you haven’t already) how to spot the signs of a spiritual awakening. You can read about the symptoms of spiritual awakening in our previous blog post here. Don’t forget to share this article with a friend or family member who wants to communicate with spirit guides, and feel free to leave us a comment if you’ve had experience talking to spirit guides!